It’s been a while since I’ve posted. Things have been a little hard to balance. Getting the kids kicked off at school with practices and everything else has made it hard to get back to “basics” so to speak. Summer was good for the most part, but it seems like when summer is over every thing piles on. I get the pleasure of appearing in child support court in two weeks (I am highly dreading). My ex, who for the past year, handled his visitation, but did not pay any of child support. He has been missing for about three weeks now – I do believe he has violated his probation (if so he will be looking at 4-6 years). I have spoken to him on the phone once or twice, but one thing I’ve learned over the summer is that he is a compulsive liar – you can not believe a word that comes out of his mouth. He was going to therapy, which at first seem to be making progress – NOPE. Even though there’s no fear of him actually showing up lately, I have banned him from taking the kids on the fear that he has violated his probation – I don’t want to risk the kids being there if he is arrested. Unfortunately this is hard to deal with – the older kids are use to his disappearances and deal better, but the baby doesn’t understand and there’s no way to make a two year old understand anything.
I’ve come to the conclusion that people really don’t like to hear about this, it seems to repeat itself over and over (believe me I see it), but I have to vent somewhere. I will re-start posting tomorrow.
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